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Remembering CinderellaA Cinderella Story
by Terry and Susan Quinlan

once upon a time there was a cat named Cindy, which was short for Cinderella. She lived on the streets most, if not all, of her life. No one knew her age, but she was old. Her ear was clipped, which indicated that she was a captured stray and was neutered. Her long unkempt fur was a diluted tortoiseshell color of mostly gray and white with a touch of orange. The fur would ball up into painful tangles all over her body and Cindy’s backbone was fusing together due to jumping from very high places for much of her life. The backbone eventually became completely fused together. As a result, she staggered when she walked and had to drag herself up onto things, since she was not able the jump any more. She no longer ran anywhere. She just walked in a slow, purposeful manner.

in the year 2000 she wound up at an animal shelter. One day an older couple came to the shelter to replace their three cats that had died the previous year. They saw this frightened, mangy, scrawny cat looking up through the bars of her cage with this pitiful, forlorn look in her eyes that said, “Please, please take me home with you.” It was Cindy. She was pleading to be saved in hopes of any life, even if it wasn’t a better life. That look, her heartbreaking appearance, and the fact that the couple always had a soft spot for older cats that others generally did not want, convinced the couple to give this truly “poor soul” a new home.

when Cindy first arrived at her new home, she was always trying to hide. Her first few hiding places were pretty easy to find, but finally she disappeared for two days. She eventually was found hiding on a ledge up in the fireplace, which was sealed up shortly afterwards. She continued to hide for weeks thereafter, but with a lot of prodding by her new family, she took to the older couple’s bed as her permanent home 24/7. Unable to jump, she had to drag herself up onto the bed whenever she chose not to use her step stool, which was a box at the foot of the bed.

It was years before she stopped growling, biting and clawing your fingers when you tried to pet, comb or brush her. She never lost her John Wayne stagger when she walked but somehow managed to get around quite well. With the exception of trips to the food and water dishes, potty breaks, and visits to her two owner’s respective home offices for lap and snooze time, she seemed perfectly content on her queen size bed. She never showed fear in spite of her diminutive size. She was never intimidated by her holy terror of a sister, Tigger, who hissed at anything within two feet of her. Cindy just ignored her with great disdain and never wavered from her path past her. Her two sister cats never invaded her space on the bed as they peered down at her from their own cat castles. At times Cindy would sit on the windowsill at the head of the bed to enjoy nature outside and to bask in the blanket of heat from the sun between the glass and drapes.

over the years her tangled fur got so painful that she would no longer tolerate combing or brushing, so her chest, underbody and bottom would get shaved regularly while the bad lumps would be cut off by hand. Her fur coat never reached the beautiful shiny look one would hope for their cat. And always being a dainty eater, she never did put on much weight.

But once she settled in, as in all happy endings to fairy tales, she found her Prince Charming. She would join the woman of the house in her office during the day and sleep for most of her visit on her pillow in the window, but as soon as the man of the house would sit down on the bed to watch television, she would be in his lap. She absolutely adored him, and he could do no wrong. In spite of appearing to be walking in pain all the time, she would follow him back and forth from the bedroom to the kitchen as if he might never come back. At the end of a busy day of sunning, napping, watching television, dining and bathing the parts of her body that her fused backbone allowed, she would crawl under the blankets between the older couple for a well deserved night’s sleep.

as in the Fairy tale of Cinderella, Cindy went through quite a transformation from living in poverty on the streets to the comfort of the lap of her Prince Charming for the rest of her life. Her inner beauty became obvious to all through her disheveled, scrawny outer appearance. She had become a very loving, courageous, determined, proud and loyal member of the family. In 2009 she passed away in the arms of her Prince Charming in the quiet of their woodsy backyard amongst the towering eucalyptus, while they relived their fairy tale life together.

Cinderella Catthey say character leads to courage and courage to heroics, but few are given the opportunity to display those traits. Yet others are born into a life of hardships and handicaps. As they say, “Life’s about playing poor hands well.” For nine years, Cindy showed her character and courage every day of her life and became a real hero to one older couple. I suppose we are all looking for the meaning of life, and in Cindy’s case, it was to convince others not to give up too soon on our loved ones – there is always hope with enough love and patience. It just takes longer for some to reap the benefits of that combination. Cindy would think it incredible that from her inner beauty and problems she endured in her lifetime, she would be the inspiration for art works that will create more beauty in the world for so many to appreciate.

~ Remembering Cinderella ~

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